Been ruffling hoes feathers since circa 1988.

 

Don’t you dare
Shrink yourself
For someone else’s comfort -
Do not become small
For people who refuse to grow.

m.v., Advice to my future daughter, #2. (via h-o-r-n-g-r-y)

Flawless.

ayllined:

dyferentthoughts:

ayllined:

dyferentthoughts:

ayllined:

dyferentthoughts:

Feminism is about the social, political, and economic equality of all.

Period.

Stop making it into male bashing
because it’s not.

Stop making it into fucking penis envy
because [busts out laughing because, really, wtf?] it’s NOT.

Feminism is equality for me, you, my 3 brothers, mother,…

But we don’t make it into that. Feminists themselves do it whenever they open their mouths

Then they aren’t feminist baby. I said that. Allies don’t create chaos, they desire piece.

Please tell me more about the true Scotsman. I bet they will say you are not the real feminist.

I just told you what feminism means TO ME and you’re seriously debating my personal feelings on the subject? That’s just not how this works. THAT’S NOT HOW ANY OF THIS WORKS! And you sought ME out pumpkin. It’s fine.

So feminism means this to you, and I should respect that. Well feminism means that to me, and you should respect that too. This is why I’m not a feminist. We cant talk like adults and agree on something

Point me in the direction where I ever said you have to respect what feminism means to me? You haven’t even tried to explain to me what you’re definition of feminism means to you and while we’re on the subject, feminism IS THE EQUALITY FOR ALL. I don’t understand what you’re trying to debate me on and why. You may have had you’re encounters with others who claim they are but that doesn’t apply TO ME so what is this conversation even about? You claim you’re not feminist, fine. You don’t care about equality for all…fine. Werid, but fine. And as for that last sentence, “We cant talk like adults and agree on something” we don’t have to agree on shit. You’re not a feminist, PERFECT. I am and that’s what this ENTIRE DAMN POST WAS ABOUT, clarifying the negatives revolving around this word and it’s true meaning. 

Flawless.

ayllined:

dyferentthoughts:

ayllined:

dyferentthoughts:

Feminism is about the social, political, and economic equality of all.

Period.

Stop making it into male bashing
because it’s not.

Stop making it into fucking penis envy
because [busts out laughing because, really, wtf?] it’s NOT.

Feminism is equality for me, you, my 3 brothers, mother,…

But we don’t make it into that. Feminists themselves do it whenever they open their mouths

Then they aren’t feminist baby. I said that. Allies don’t create chaos, they desire piece.

Please tell me more about the true Scotsman. I bet they will say you are not the real feminist.

I just told you what feminism means TO ME and you’re seriously debating my personal feelings on the subject? That’s just not how this works. THAT’S NOT HOW ANY OF THIS WORKS! And you sought ME out pumpkin. It’s fine.

Flawless.

ayllined:

dyferentthoughts:

Feminism is about the social, political, and economic equality of all.

Period.

Stop making it into male bashing
because it’s not.

Stop making it into fucking penis envy
because [busts out laughing because, really, wtf?] it’s NOT.

Feminism is equality for me, you, my 3 brothers, mother,…

But we don’t make it into that. Feminists themselves do it whenever they open their mouths

Then they aren’t feminist baby. I said that. Allies don’t create chaos, they desire piece.

Flawless.

Feminism is about the social, political, and economic equality of all.

Period. 

Stop making it into male bashing
because it’s not.

Stop making it into fucking penis envy
because [busts out laughing because, really, wtf?] it’s NOT.

Feminism is equality for me, you, my 3 brothers, mother, girlfriends, boyfriend, my future children, and all of your people to. 

Simple, right?

If somebody says they are a feminist and they are in ANYWAY bashing another they are an impostor.

We are allies. 

Know the fucking difference before you start spewing the bitch shit that somebody told you but you didn’t have enough fucking sense to make an informed opinion for yourself in. I’m over it. I’m over the gotdamn lies that get spread by everyone.

I’m a lover of the truth. This crooked ass world isn’t going to consume me. Fuuucckkk that. I’d rather fight.

With love,

-Dyf-

Growth is painful. Change is painful.But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don’t belong.

Mandy Hale (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

i needed this today :(

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